I strongly disagree with the idea of cheating with someone is okay as long as it is something small. This goes for both married people and people who are just dating. If you are married it is even worse because you made a commitment to that person during your marriage and anyone who you let step between you is an issue and you are breaking that promise that you made. It even says in the bible on the ten commandments, you shall not covet your neighbors wife. With another example in the Crucible, John could not recite the commandment about adultery because he was full of guilt. We want to say that little things are okay just so we feel better. We can’t just make loopholes to try and make ourselves less accuse-able.